I assume the whole purpose of the dating is to find love, intimacy and sex if you get lucky. And the whole process is so complicated .
1. Wear new clothes
2. Brush again
3. Wear nice perfume
4. Find a good restaurant
5. Buy roses or chocolates or both
6. Where new underpants [if you get lucky/optimism is only religion men have in this context.]
7. If you have commonsense,then buy contraceptives.
8. last moment how to kiss, practice?
Its complicated. And the process seem need ending. Why not be straight forward like Shahrukh in My Name is Khan To Kajol, lets have sex. Yeap I know he was suffering with Asperger’s syndrome.It made life easier for both of them.
According to the Mehrabian’s model only7% of meaning is in the words that are spoken.We all may not[are not] experts of non verbal communication and to interpret what exactly a person is trying to communicate nonverbally . Lets this be done byAllan & Barbara Pease.
The crux is make life simple with words which is only 7% .
“Make Big out of Small”